Michael Haman
(Nephew)
written by his mother, Kathryn
Any
niece or nephew will gladly tell of the "times they've had with
John" and how special they were. I want to mention that Mike had
the wonderful advantage of lots of time with John. Especially after
our divorce, Mike and I would spend some of each day over at Dad's and
John's. John was the only "car seat" Mike ever knew. As we
would travel down the "fast street" as John taught Mike to
call the freeway on our way to Margaret's, John would occupy Mike by
telling him about the landmarks to look for that would help pass the
time. The point of the mountain, the smoke stacks, and inevitably whenever
we passed a smelly place on the roadway from a slaughter house or big
farm, John would say, "Mike, didn't you change your socks today?"
It was a great laugh, until one day Mike tried it on someone in the
car who wasn't in on the joke.
Mike
spent hours and hours in John's room listening to music and I suppose
if Mike were to list today some of his own greatest joys----music would
be near the top. John, and Mike to follow, liked all kinds of music.
Mike still plays some of John's music today. When Mike was in kindergarten,
Lynn returned the family piano because he had purchased a grand piano.
This was so exciting to Mike that one day after school, instead of going
home, Mike walked all the way to John's just to play the piano. (This
would be a determined 5 year old walking right through Liberty Park
alone.)
One of the last trips that Mike and John went on together was to Sea
World. I wonder if that trip didn't plant a seed or two for Mike because
of his extensive interest in tropical and salt water fish that came
later. It was all John could do to talk Mike into picking up that starfish.
Much of what John did with all of the kids was to teach them every chance
he got.
He
loved teaching the kids that he was magic. The most famous trick was
to take out a piece of candy and hold it with the last two fingers of
his big hand and then invite a kid over and ask them to point to a picture
of their favorite choice on a closed box of candy. As soon as a chocolate
was pointed to, John would drop the candy from his hand and offer it
to them. The looks of amazement are easily recalled today. When Mike
was very young and in the imitation stage, he would try to "back
down the stairs" the way John used to. We had to talk pretty hard
to get Mike to stop doing it. We never were successful at getting Mike
to not stand like John with his legs crossed. In the years to come as
Mike was on the baseball field or just standing around, he would be
in John's familiar stance. I've personally come to love seeing it. It's
just a little reminder to me that John is still here.

Carrie, Mike Haman and John Carson at the Deer Camp

Mike Haman and John Carson on the Heber Creeper
Puzzle:
It is a mistake to attempt to barter a mount while attemping to ford
a wet area.